I have received more phone calls with women crying their damn eyes out this year alone than I can remember. I have patted backs, wiped noses, and repeated the same advice over and over again for those who don't freaking listen. He cheats time and time again, and some of you have even spilled to me that he has been taking your money out of the joint account you two share and is spending it on her. One sister told me she went negative forty-five dollars in the bank and had no clue as of why. She got her bank statement and there were charges from Forever 21, Bakers, Nine West, Body Central, and so on. This man whom she has been declaring her love to has been taking his little side ho on shopping sprees with her money. First time shame on his ass, second time shame on you. Because let me tell you what these women have in common. They man has cheated before, and they keep falling for the "I love yous" and the "Never agains" to have him continously do it again.
Then one chick calls and texts me continously about the same thing that she should have shut down a long time ago. The sidechick keeps calling her man, texting, emailing, facebooking etc. She doesnt want to ask the girl to stop even though her man has done so, because she is too scared of losing her man. This is when I ask you to cease and desist from messaging me this bullshit. Basically you are telling me that you will let anything take place in your relationship because you are afraid to be without a man. Ladies, please.
See, when he cheats and violates the first time, pack your shit and leave, or pack his hefty bags and set it at the corner or on the porch.
I don't feel sorry for those who have been going through this, with the same man for years, because that is on you. Grow a backbone.
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