Staying in my Element

People were calling Lisaraye a golddigger because she said "I have always dated men with money, I deserve the best". I wholeheartedly agree with her. A lot of people say I have extremely high standards, but that is because I have no time or room for error with anyone. I can do bad all by myself so why should I hook my arm around some bum who claims "I have fallen on hard times for the past eight years."  I deserve someone who has equal or more, and trying to get more, not the reject who has been down in the dumps because he has several felonies and "the white man wont give a brother a chance." I deserve the best in everything, including the best man, all of you women do. Which brings me to this particular.....uhhhhh...bull I wanted to share.
 This guy had been trying to get with me for months now, and I just didnt want to give him the time of day. I mean it was something grit grimey about him. He just gives me the heebie jeebies, he text me one night talking about all the licking, sucking, tucking and what not he wanted to do to me. It was interesting, though not arousing. He talked a good game. Until he said "I want to make love to you so bad". Im like "Why? You dont love me" He text. "You're good people". Whatever that means. So I told him straight up that I am not into jumping in bed with just anyone, especially on the strength of words. I am high maintenance so I do not have casual sex, I like to go out to different places and be shown a good time. I also text him a list of my hobbies. Wine tasting, museums, aquarium, theatre, going out of town to exotic places, exotic foods, etc etc the list went on. He was like. Okay and I didnt hear from him until one night he was begging me to come over and perform fellatio on me. I was like no. I am not interested. I told him if he likes he could drive us to New York to Mr. Chow's and talk over dinner.  I have'nt heard from him since. He is not in my element, and never will be.